Category Archives: Family Mediation

As family law mediators, we journey into the “guts and bellies” of people’s lives. How do you get mediation clients to trust you? Who wants to air “dirty laundry” to a stranger? How do you get someone to feel comfortable enough to share what brought on the decline of their relationship? Essentially, what led them to you? I have done …
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Some separating couples are worried that mediation will just be a waste of time, money and energy. This is an understandable concern. It is why we meet each party first, in confidence, to assess whether the matter is suitable for mediation. There may be reasons why mediation is premature, like the emotions are too fresh, disclosure is not complete, or …
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A little-known relatively-new Family Law Rule offers litigants a great opportunity to save time and money. Under Rule 17 (7.1), litigants will be able to skip a case conference if they have attended mediation and met the other requirements of the Rule. Here is what you need to know! The parties will need to tried to resolve their issues with …
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Are lawyers being replaced? Not so fast! Could ChatGPT fill gaps in the arena of access to justice? Cautiously, yes. Could it contribute to efficiency? Perhaps! Can it successfully level the playing field for self-represented litigants? Not yet! The reticence in my answers should not be surprising. ChatGPT has been around for a mere four months. While any help we …
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Exploring mediation can move your case forward through the litigation process.. in more ways than one. Prior to the March 1, 2021 Divorce Act changes, lawyers had a duty to inform clients about mediation facilities. The Divorce Act changes now places a duty on lawyers to encourage clients to attempt to resolve matters through a family dispute resolution process. There is also a duty on …
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Family mediation is here to stay as a viable alternative to dispute resolution. Be it court-connected or private mediation, the process is successful for so many reasons, including timely resolution and interest-based settlements. Although mediation is not mandatory, recent Divorce Act changes require that clients be encouraged to explore resolutions through a family dispute resolution process, unless it is not …
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We recently surveyed our family mediation and parenting coordination clients. Too often we are focused on the day-to-day pressures and challenges of each file. We don’t take enough time to ask “how did I do?” or to say “thank you!” The results were both rewarding and informative. Here is a summary of what our clients had to say about our …
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I recently was interviewed by Dr. Roisin O’Shea, the Chair of the Irish Professional Mediators’ Organisation. (IPMO) The interview was one of several commemorating International Mediation Awareness Week. It is fascinating to learn the different ways jurisdictions tackle the access to justice and court backlog challenges of our times. And to see how the way in which family mediation has …
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